Among my current skins, a couple of them tick most of your boxes:
Neptune and
Saturn. Saturn has more traditional thumbnails (borders, shadows, etc.), while Neptune uses a leaner thumbnail display (justified or fixed shape, no shadows, only a thin 1px border option).
Both support metadata - see, e.g.,
https://jgromit.com/saturn/metadata/. Hover on the little camera icon. Neptune works the same way.
Both have a slideshow, but no autostart. An autostart slideshow is somewhat out of favor - it's considered a little aggressive.
Both have a copyright line option.
Both can show a shadow on the slide image.
No thumbstrips, I'm afraid. They're a huge problem for a responsive layout.
No easily-created external links. I got tired of seeing albums that looked like link farms, with, oh, by the way, an image or two.
But you can use the "top info text" option in either skin to put whatever you like above the thumbnail table. For simple links to other pages, it would take only a few lines of HTML and CSS.