Your position is based on the fact that most of the people you deal with (album viewers, album makers, skin developers) are experienced computer users. Many (most?) of my album viewers (family and friends) are computer "challenged" at best, and there is little danger that I have over-coached them in my album notes. 0% of them would know what a "lightbox" based skin even is, let alone that the X on the slide page is to close the box and not to close the web page, as they are used to doing by clicking the X in the upper right corner. I agree that they will catch on after a few views.
Do any of them use Facebook? Do any of them do any online shopping? If so, they should be quite familiar with the "click on this small image to see a bigger version, click the X or click off-image to get back to where you were" mechanism. It's become really, really common.
I would just add that my visitors include my exceedingly non-computer savvy siblings who have 8 and 10 years on me. Doing support in here is a piece of cake, by comparison - trying to help my brother is like doing surgery while wearing mittens. But once I gave him an explicit way to grab images from the family website, he was fine (a nice, obvious "download" icon is sometimes worth its weight in gold).
Several of your current skins do not return to the index page when clicking off-image...
They're not lightbox skins, and even I occasionally find myself trying to click off-image to return to the thumbnail page when testing them, and being momentarily puzzled when it doesn't work.
I've thought about changing that, but it raises all sorts of problems with things like swipe responses. It's a long story.... It would also violate some basic web site conventions about page navigation.
I agree that most users, regardless of skill level, can eventially muddle their way through an album either way.
You've obviously never encountered a
MarkusD Baffling Ordeal Albumâ„¢. (Let's see if Markus reads non-Tiger threads.

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